Not sure how helpfull this will be but i struggled with drum tracks for a long time. Tried almost everything under the sun, Superior drummer, loops, virtual drum machines...the way i see it, if you're just making backing tracks to jam to you could probably get away with using just loops (EZ drummer comes with various midi sections for intro, verse, chorus etc.)
BUT, if you need realistic drums for your own songs, there's really no easy way out, you have to get familiar with the basics of drumming and become a virtual drummer in a way. This is a good read for programming drums:
http://www.soundonsound.com/sos/feb98/articles/rythm.htmlI don't have any videos on this but everything on my soundcloud page was done with keyboard playing or a korg pad kontrol and quantizing and editing details by hand. It' s a huge pain in the ass sometimes and a long process but eventually you will get better/faster at it.
What really helped me was analyzing drum parts from my favourite songs and then try to copy that in my own songs when i needed a similar drum part for my own ideas/riffs.
The way i do it is i simply play the kick and snare parts on the keyboard first and add hi hats and cymbals with the mouse. Fills can be tricky but practice makes perfect. It also helps to remind yourself that drummers only have two hands so if it sounds immpossible to play it probabaly is.
I really wish there was some kind of magic bullet for this cos it would save us all a lot of headache but i noticed that the only guys who are brilliant at this are/were drummers themselves and know what kind of a groove they're after when they start recording. I'm by no means an expert at programming drums but i've come a long way from sucking at it to getting some decent drums for the stuff that i do.